Sunday, August 21, 2005

You know how they say there is someone out there for everyone. Well, how do you know that? Are you sure about it? I know sooo many single people that are great people. Why are they still single? Why am I? Will I be single forever? Then what do I do. Live my life never getting married. Never having children. What if that ONE has already passed through my life? Was he the guy who asked for my number at Publix? Did we date and break up for some stupid reason that doesn’t really matter? Did he date one of my friends instead of me? What if I rejected him because he was too tall or too short, too fat or too skinny, too rich or too poor, too much into cars, not enough into sports, didn’t like my dog, I couldn’t stand his friends… Then what?

2 Comments:

At 10:08 AM, August 22, 2005, Blogger ShellyP said...

I believe that not only is there someone out there for everyone, but that there are multiple people out there.

I don't know if you're actively keeping an eye out, and I know this will sound cliche', but it was when I wasn't looking for a man that one found me. As a matter of fact, it was when I decided that I just wanted to have fun going out that K came into my life and cramped my style.

"Keep hope alive!"

 
At 10:41 AM, August 22, 2005, Blogger Aziza said...

SP, it seems like at night I'm bombarded with those thoughts also. But in the back of my mind, I think I know that previous relationships weren't meant to be anyway. So, I shouldn't be dwelling on those old memories.

But more or less, I've tried to adopt the mindset of trying to be happy no matter what--single or married. I don't wait around for phone calls and I try not to set unreasonable expectations. I continue on with the activities that I wish to take part in (reading, cooking, watching tv, surfing the web, performing community service, etc.). If a nice guy comes along, that would be nice too.

And as ShellyP said, keep hope alive.

 

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