What can I say, I'm a fucking idiot. I'm still messing around with Tico. He explained to me why he is still married to her and how he didn't marry her for love so he doesn't take it as a big deal. After talking for a while he understands why it bothers me so much and we are just gonna wait and see what happens right now. It's been a long time since I've been around someone that makes me happy so we'll just wait and see. If it starts to get serious, then we'll have a serious discussion about this. For now, we'll take it for what it is and I'll keep ya'll updated.
Just me...
Everyone's got a little crazy in them, it's just harder to find in some people.
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well...we all have our opinions but you have to do what makes you happy.
Why would you invest your time with the chance that it may get serious and then have the discussion? I hear you when you say he makes you happy now, but if he really does make you happy then shouldn't you have "the discussion" now and get it out of the way? Don't wait til you're too attached to think straight.
Hey, like Shawn said, we have our own opinions, and we're not you or in your position. But I'm not taking back the two cents that I just put in.
don't want to overstep
BUT
I've been in your position and what you are about to experience will not be pleasant.
Be careful.
Shawn - Thanks for your concern. Right now I am happy...
Shelly - We have had a talk about it, but I am not sure how I am going to handle it yet. Besides, I may get sick of him soon anyway. You know how I am. LOL!
Chele - Girl, you are not overstepping. I appreciate your advice, wisdom, and concern. If this does turn into somehting, I may need all of it!
I've read your entry a couple of times since you posted it. And first I have to say is that you are "not" an idiot. You're just like the rest of us who want to be appreciated and loved.
But please know that you are worthy of having man who is trustyworthy and will make you his only woman.
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Please don't give away your heart to someone who doesn't deserve it. I gotta co-sign with benthebald. You say you respect marriage and what it means, but Tico obviously does not.
Also, not to hop up on my soap box, but AIDS continues to be the leading cause of death for Black women between the ages of 24 and 34. Do you really want to be sleeping with someone who has no respect for commitment? Please protect yourself.
Hope everything is all right with you.
I co sign with Mz JJ.
you okay?
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