I've been having a few issues lately. I am pretty upset with Tico. Maybe upset is not so much the word as hurt. See, next week he is going to NY to see his family. By family, I mean, see his Dad, sisters, uncle, and cousins. He is also going to be spending time with his son. I'm cool with that. But of course that means spending time with his wife. Yup, I said WIFE. STILL MARRIED! That really really bothers me. What hurts me the most is that she doesn't even know about me. They haven't been together in years and they have both been in serious relationships since splitting. She even called him the other day to chat about an upcoming date. Why doesn't she know about me, you ask? Well, the initial plan was for Tico's son to come visit here. There were having some issues planning that and at one point i asked "Does she know you live with me?" His response... "No, she doesn't even know we are together." I think I dropped what I was holding at the time. Aparently she had been giving him a hard time about how "No other women is gonna raise my son." and was threatening to not let him come down. So what does Tico do? He changes his status on myspace to single and deletes all of my pictures. Aparently she was checking his myspace page almost daily and emailing him stuff about it. WHAT THE F*CK?? I though I didn't have to worry about this one... She was acually supposed to be the easy one. The pregnant one down here is supposed to be the one giving me all of the problems. Oh, and she IS. At this point they aren't even speaking and she looks like she is about to pop any minute now. But that's another one of my issues. Back to the wife thing. I was telling Tico how upset I was and he didn't get it. He acually didn't understand why I was so upset. Do ya'll understand why it upsets me?
My friend started yelling at me when she heard all of this. She can't believe that I am ok with all of this and that I put up with it. We've been together for 6 month now. He lives with me. She's right when she says I deserve more that this. Tico said that when he was in NY he was gonna see about getting a divorce. I think I have made a critical decision. If he doesn't do it when he is there next week, I think I'm going to have to ask him to move out. I mean, if he doesn't take care of this, then he can't possibly love me, right? He can't be serious about us, can he?
